How do I get over partners infidelity and separation with teenage childre?

We were together 25 years worked together side by side had two kids survived breast cancer and previous infidelity. 5 months ago I found out he was in love with someone else and he just walked out of our family to be with her. Our kids openly hate him. I am always in tears and confused and can't sleep. He throws money at us when he can and thinks that this is his apology for what he has done. He has now introduced her to his mother and brother who have been a strong support to me and I feel so betrayed. I'm not coping and my children are sufferingHow do I get over partners infidelity and separation with teenage childre?
If your inability to cope is affecting your children, get some professional counselling.How do I get over partners infidelity and separation with teenage childre?
I agree you need to be strong for your children. Even though it's tearing you up inside you need to find a way to get over this. You deserve someone who will be faithful to you and make you happy. Also try to not let your children hate him. He is their father and will always be that. They should have a relationship with him. Even though he walked out on them he is still their father. You need to get some professional help for all of you. Some personal and family counseling. Hang in there.
Take some of that money he throws at you and get a good attorney. One that will tear him apart in court.





Take SOME MORE of that money and get some good professional help for you and the children, that will actually help you more than you know. You and the kids need someone to talk to about all of this, you've all been through a lot and now this, you probably have needed counselling before now but hey it's not too late by any means so get going, get someone professional for you and your children especially. They should not be taught to hate their father, it's the only father they have and these days anything can happen, no one should leave this earth with bad blood between them and loved ones, one day it will be too late to say I'm Sorry or I Love You and you surely don't want that to happen to your kids.





Yes, you HAVE been betrayed and his family may not be coping well with this either. Your HUSBAND betrayed you, not his family, you cannot expect them to pick sides and hate your husband, that's blood. Your kids need some help - PROFESSIONAL HELP - with their anger too.





God bless.